WBFJ Wednesday Word

Wednesday Word for August 3rd

2011-08-04T08:37:00.000-07:00

Over the course of the past 3 years, I have had the distinct privilege of fellowshipping with believers on 3 different continents. While each instance looked extremely different, these experiences also bore remarkable similarities. I always enjoy seeing the unique faces of the Body of Christ in a global perspective.

However, last week I was fortunate to accompany 28 high school student for a mission experience unlike any other just outside of Nashville, TN. Good works and heart-touching experiences were complemented by intentional relationship building and an all-out desire of abandon for the mission call.

Most of our churches and many of our families were likely involved in some sort of mission activity this summer. Here’s hoping that the experience affects our lives beyond the event itself. Making a difference in our own community requires a similar dedication…guess that’s the whole Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria ripple effect of our faith in action. Fortunately, when we invest in the eternal, the dividends are secure!

~Wally

Wednesday Word for July 27th

2011-07-28T08:03:00.001-07:00

I don’t know if you’re like me, but it came as no surprise to hear about the death of rock star Amy Winehouse last weekend. Here’s another unfortunate passing of an entertainer, way too young and whose life was filled with multiple bad choices, thus possible the reason she’s in eternity. Which eternity, we’ll I’m not sure, nor is that for me to judge, but from the lifestyle she led… well you fill in the blank. Her family and friends were said to be shocked to hear the passing of Ms. Winehouse. Really? Why? Who could NOT have seen this coming? Obviously these people are not in touch with reality and their surroundings. It’s sad, so sad. Another wasted life that didn’t have to end like this.

On another sad but lighter note, Dan Peek, former member of the 70’s pop band America also passed away this past weekend. Sometime during the last 70’s Dan committed his life to Christ and actually had a few contemporary Christian hits. He also rewrote, “Lonely People.” It’s comforting to know that Dan is now in the presence of the Lord. It may have been a shock that he died, but I’m sure it’s not a shock to his family and friends to where he is spending eternity. Something for you to quietly think about… Have a great Wednesday.

~Kurt

Wednesday Word for July 20th

2011-07-25T06:51:00.000-07:00

Ever feel the Lord has put a message in your heart for a friend but you question if it was truly from the Father or just something on your mind? I think I am there right now.

As I lay trying to completely wake up the other morning, I kept thinking about the “Wednesday Word”I was to write today. And I kept thinking today’s word would not be universal as it often is…but would be for one person of the Father’s choosing. My second thought was “Lord, what about the other 99?” and my next thought was “they will now think to pray for the one”.

After all that mental exercise I was really ready for some great message but what came to mind was so simple I felt like I’m not going share that. But my heart will never feel satisfied until I share this simple message from the Father for the “one”.

“I know what you have been going through and I know the valley is deep. I know you have tried to climb the mountain out more than once but that too has been very tedious and sometimes almost not worth the effort. And you have failed so often you have lost track of just were you are in the journey. Sometimes you seem just about ready to give up. But I want you to know you are much closer to the summit than you can imagine. If you stop now, you will miss the top and the other side and a whole new world of blessings- more than you can imagine. What you see as the end is very close to being your new beginning. See your journey through. I will never leave you or forsake you.”

So simple a message but maybe the Father felt like it was important enough to deliver it to you this way. I really would like to find out if you are the “one” or maybe one of the “99” who knows someone who needs the encouragement. I even feel encouraged myself just delivering the message.

~ John

Wednesday Word for July 13th

2011-07-25T06:49:00.000-07:00

Music fills our minds and mouths on a regular basis, but sometimes there is a line or a lyric that reaches the heart. A line in a new song heard recently on WBFJ says; “the peace that passes understanding is my song…”

Each of us has a song that defines us, describe our character or pinpoint a certain place in life. That’s one of the joys of music. God uses the creativity of His servants (maybe even out of their pain) to encourage our hearts.

I’m not sure where this hot mid-summer day finds you. But as for me, I truly want to sing that chorus of peace previously mentioned. Things I don’t understand, circumstances over which I have no control and conditions I can’t explain can lead to hopelessness. That is, unless we lean on that peace we cannot define. I know I need it today and my guess is that you do too…

So regardless of the situation, let’s sing together and find rest in the arms that long to hold us…

~ Wally

Wednesday Word for July 6th

2011-07-25T06:47:00.000-07:00

“FREEDOM!!!” What a beautiful word! We have just celebrated the signing of the Declaration of Independence that took place on July 4, 1776, when the United States declared independence from the Kingdom of Great Britain. I thank God everyday for our armed service men and women that continue to fight for our freedom and especially for those who have paid the ultimate price so that we can live our life the way we choose. There are all kinds of freedoms to want and to have, but the one freedom that we can all have is our spiritual freedom. That is the freedom from sin and death and the freedom to live as God lovingly created us to live. Christ offers us permanent and lasting freedom that touches every aspect of our lives by giving His life on the cross. Freedom is so easy when all we have to do is make it personal by having faith in Jesus Christ.

He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins...Ephesians 1:7

~Cindy

Wednesday Word for June 29th

2011-07-25T06:45:00.001-07:00

My daughter Carley and I are leaving this Friday for a week in Guatemala to serve on a Caroline's Promise mission team. I am super excited to share this experience with her! There are lots of great reasons to bring your child on a mission trip: they get to experience other cultures, they'll hopefully gain a new appreciation of their own life, they will learn how to be more flexible, not to mention the incredible opportunity you'll have to bond with your child on a mission trip (as soon as they're mature enough), is that by doing so, you are giving him or her a chance to meet Jesus in person.

In Matthew 25 (35&40), Jesus tells his disciples, "For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me".. "Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these, brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me."

Lets be intentional about providing our children with opportunities to encounter Jesus among the least of these. You don't have to travel internationally to do it, there are plenty of opportunities right her in our community! Just pray about where God would like you to serve and I promise, opportunities will present themselves.

What are your suggestions about places to serve Christ with your kids?! Please, share them with me by email, tami@wbfj.fm.

~Tami

Wednesday Word for June 22nd

2011-06-22T07:16:00.000-07:00

Making memories for a lifetime…

This past weekend Paula and I celebrated our 17^th wedding anniversary…at Carowinds with our daughters.

No romantic dinner for two. No couple’s getaway to a bed and breakfast. We both decided to put aside our anniversary to capture a few more memories with our girls. Just the four of us.

I still want to believe that WE are not getting older. They are!

Bailey, our teenager, just started the driving part of Driver’s Ed. And, Mariah just entered middle school youth group at church! Seriously, the years have absolutely flown by. Reality check, the girls are doing what God intended; they are just growing up and getting older. So, Paula and I are capturing every moment ‘together’ with our girls as much as we can.

James 4:14 says that we “do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.

As a parent or a grandparent, as a mentor or as a friend, take every opportunity to spend time with the ones you love. Compared with eternity, our lives on earth are just a ‘vapor’. Seize those special moments each and everyday. And enjoy!

~Verne

Wednesday Word for June 15th

2011-06-22T07:14:00.001-07:00

Do you want to make a difference in God’s kingdom? Do you desire to be used in a mighty way to the glory of Jesus? Do you have high ambitions for yourself in Christ’s body? Then don’t settle for holding a significant position or for being especially prominent. I want to encourage you to raise your sights even higher—make it your goal to be the chief person in the kingdom of God.. And start serving everyone around you.

Jesus told His disciples on several occasions the only way to be great in His kingdom was by serving others. The person that wishes to be great must take on the lowest, others-oriented position in the church and must become a servant to all.

So, here’s a tough, ’you & God’ question … Is there anyone in the church that you would seriously ‘dislike’ serving? Do you still see yourself above certain individuals because of their background, or social status, or financial situation? Then, you are not yet the ‘chief’ in God’s kingdom. Because you’re not serving to ALL.

Here’s the good news, God gives us opportunities every day to serve. Opportunities to seek out the ‘lowliest of these’ and become lower still by serving them. There is no person to small, or sick, or handicapped for you to serve in Jesus’ kingdom .. IF you are spiritually ambitious enough!

~Jeff

Wednesday Word for June 8th

2011-06-08T05:28:00.000-07:00

2 weeks ago tomorrow my mother in love (law) went to be with Jesus. It was a bittersweet time as we watched her breathe her last breath. The sweet was we were so glad that she would no longer be suffering. She would finally be home in heaven. The bitter is that there is a great hole, she is no longer is with us, taking part in our kids lives and ours.

The Lord has such a beautiful way of ministering to us through His word, friends and family. It is especially sweet when he gives you a lesson that you were not expecting.

This past Friday night I dropped my son off at a Going Away Party for an exchange student who had spent her junior year at my son's school. He and I both had the privilege of getting to know Anna from January to now because of a play they were both in. Anna is a delightful young lady from Germany who has brought much to our lives and hopefully we spoke blessings in to her life. I do know that she has been forever changed by her choice to make Jesus Lord of her life. But back to the party, I went in to tell Anna goodbye as well, which was harder than I expected because I began to feel that sense of loss again. I realized that her host family (the Nuttall’s) would be grieving, too, a little different grief than my family and I were doing, but still grieving. This precious girl who had slept in their home, broke bread with them, attended school with their daughters and just lived life with them was leaving. She was leaving what she has known for 9 months, as her life. It was one of those bittersweet moments. Leaving the Nuttall's with a sad heart, but Anna was going home, and everyone was excited for her, too. She had family waiting on the other side and as sad as it was to let her leave, the Nutall’s and Anna knew she would soon be home in Germany, rejoicing with her family, where she belongs.

What a sweet analogy that was for me. My mother in love, Nellie Grey Hilton is on the other side. She was greeted by her Saviour, her mother, father and all those who have gone before her. She is home, her eternal home where she belongs. I know she is dancing with the angels. We will have her memories that will keep her alive in our hearts until we see her again, when we all get home.

Thank you for your love and prayers during this time in our family’s life.

~Bonnie

Wednesday Word for June 1st

2011-06-08T05:26:00.000-07:00

Love Encourages...

“Marriage is not what I expected.” Have you ever thought that? What is it that you want married life to be? Do you want to feel secure, free to be yourself even if/when you fail? Your spouse wants that, too. The bottom line is that it is a choice to live by encouragement rather than by expectations. Towards your spouse you are to be encouraging, pouring in to them words and actions which allow them the freedom to be themselves, feeling loved. Towards yourself, you are to take responsibility for your own words and actions in order to improve yourself, rather than demanding more from others.

Maybe when you were dating, and when you first got married, you thought your spouse was “perfect.” Your expectations were high that you would “live happily ever after.” The fairy tale ended when you discovered that's not realistic.

Love would have us take a different path; one of encouragement, not discouragement. We all tend to respond better to kindness than criticism, so it shouldn’t be a surprise that your spouse is motivated in the same way.

This Saturday, June 4th, Nancy and I will celebrate 23 years of marriage!! And although their have been many more highs than lows, it's during the low times or difficult times that God has really developed the character of our marriage. Nancy is my wife, mother of our two children and best friend. Make a commitment to daily let go of unrealistic expectations and become your spouse’s greatest encourager. And the person they’re created by God to be will begin to emerge with new confidence and love for you.

Therefore encourage one another and build up one another — 1 Thessalonians 5:11

~Kurt

Wednesday Word for May 25th

2011-06-08T05:22:00.001-07:00

On a bright and sunny day, like today, I will likely be flying a flag at my home. In fact, I have two separate flags which I love to display.

An American flag and a Christian flag.

Yes, admittedly, I love to show my ‘patriotism’ by displaying ‘Old Glory’ whenever possible. Selfishly, I LOVE this country. But the Apostle Peter reminds me that my citizenship is really in Heaven.

Did you know that as believers, we are considered ‘ambassadors’ to this world? (1 Peter 2:11) As an ambassador, Peter urges us to show proper respect to everyone, live peacefully and submit to authority that God himself has allowed.

Going back to the flags, both have deep meaning. Both flags have red, white and blue as their colors. Yet, each represents a separate allegiance. Honestly, an allegiance that I struggle to balance out at times. A temporary ‘home of the brave’ compared to an eternal existence in a ‘city of gold’ with my Savior.

This weekend as we celebrate Memorial Day, I will likely put out my ‘stars and stripes’ and remember those men and women who ‘paid the ultimate sacrifice' for our freedom in America.

The freedom to do many things: the freedom to fly an American flag, or even a Christian flag, outside of my home.

~Verne

Wednesday Word for May 18th

2011-05-19T03:16:00.000-07:00

"Culture is formed by what we tolerate,” I read. That’s scary because ours is the “tolerant generation”. We are not shocked by much of anything anymore. I notice myself “tolerating” objectionable tv commercials and tv program themes that years ago would even make non-Christians blush.

Think about you, your parents and your children . Can you think of things that your parents “hated”, you “tolerate” and your children are beginning to whole-heartedly embrace.

It’s always the same cycle. One generation abhors and fights against, if necessary. The next generation will tolerate and reluctantly allow, if push comes to shove. And the next generation will totally embrace. Unfortunately, it’s our children and grandchildren that get hurt the most.

I am not talking about pierced ears, fads and superficial things. I am not talking about a return to legalism. I am talking about behavior, attitude, spiritual idolatry and things we personally and as a society are tolerating that are leaving us powerless before the Lord.

And while we are “in this neighborhood” I am not overly worried about “Judgment Day” coming on May 21^st as the local billboard warns. For judgment to come, all that has to happen is the Lord just lets our country reap what it sows. And if we want to change things before it's too late, it’s up to us to start changing what we tolerate.

~John

Wednesday Word for May 11th

2011-05-19T03:14:00.001-07:00

Hello, WBFJ family! I am typing this note from Minneapolis, Minnesota, while I am on a business trip. As a single mom, I have to leave my daughter Lexa behind in the loving care of my parents. Although I know that she is in wonderful hands, I miss her terribly and can’t wait to give her a call, just so I can hear her sweet voice. Being a parent teaches me valuable yet painful lessons regarding my relationship with our heavenly Father. Just as I long to hear my daughter’s voice on the phone, God longs to hear my voice in prayer. At times when He and I are apart, whether I am just too busy to pray or neglect to spend quiet time with Him, I know that God misses me even more than I am missing my daughter right now. As we go through this day taking care of life’s business, let us rejoice in the fact that we have a loving Father, who longs to hear our sweet voice and misses us terribly when we are apart from Him…

~Lana

Wednesday Word for May 4th

2011-05-04T11:10:00.001-07:00

Happy Wednesday!

“Thank You” sometimes seems like an understatement. That’s certainly the situation we find ourselves in following Sharathon, 2011. There are so many of you who helped us this year in a whole host of different ways. Maybe you called in during Prayer and Praise day to tell us how God has worked in your life this year…thank you! Perhaps you joined us for a night of music, fellowship and worship at the Chris August/Sidewalk Prophets concert…thank you! You may have been part of our team of volunteers who helped take calls from listeners making faith promises…thank you! Maybe you were one of those callers, giving sacrificially to support this ministry…thank you! Finally, you may have been one of the thousands of people who joined us in praying that God would continue to provide for the needs of WBFJ…thank you!

If you missed Sharathon last week, we still need and would greatly appreciate your support! Our financial need this year is $600,000 and we received just over $483,000 in faith promises during our 3 days of fundraising. We’d love for you to partner with the thousands of WBFJ listeners right here in our community who have pledged their support to WBFJ this year. You can still make your faith promise and be a part of what God is doing through this ministry by heading on line: http://www.wbfj.fm/sharathon2011.html

And…THANK YOU!!!

~Tami

Wednesday Word for April 27th

2011-05-04T11:09:00.000-07:00

The Eternality of the Temporal…or so it seems. For a split second, the world (not to mention traffic) seems to stop around you. It may be a moment of triumph or tragedy.

Then…almost as quickly, life resumes – with or without you. It’s at times like this when “the walls could speak.” There is a false sense that only the inanimate, nonhuman parts of our world are the ones that will last.

How deceiving is this notion in light of eternity where the exact opposite is true. Those things that seem to outlive us bear not even a semblance of the eternality of the soul.

This week is about sowing seeds into those things that are meant to last. Thank you for choosing to support God’s work through WBFJ. It not only provides a lasting investment, but also creates a partnership as together we engage our community for eternity.

~Wally

Wednesday Word for April 20th

2011-05-04T11:02:00.000-07:00

Wonderful Wednesday to you All!!!!!!!!!
I just wanted to say Thank You for being a part of our WBFJ Family.

Last week Laura Story was in concert at Hanes Mall. It was great to see everyone come out and be blessed. It was a wonderful time of worship and ministry. Her latest song Blessings made me think of you all. How God has blessed us with you being a part of our WBFJ Family. How we have been given the opportunity to share in your lives, to pray with you, believe with you and trust our God with you. What an awesome privilege.
Next week we have our annual Sharathon, April 26th through April 29th. Our Sharathon is what gives us the opportunity to be a part of your lives with concerts, VBS Express, and Cici’s Pizza Pledge to just name a few. How, you may ask, can I be part of Sharathon. We ask that you listen that week, you will be challenged. You will be blessed as you hear testimony after testimony of the life changing ministry that takes place through these airwaves.

The Lord may use you to give financially. We need you!
The Lord may use you to pray for the ministry. We need you!
He may even use you to give of your time. We need you!!!!!
During our 2011 Sharathon, we need over 100 volunteers who will give a couple of hours or more of their time. Your only qualifications: a willing heart, listening ear and legible handwriting. If you say, “Wow” I can do that!!!! Please email me, HYPERLINK "mailto:bonnie@wbfj.fm" bonnie@wbfj.fm. As the volunteer coordinator, I extend a warm welcome to you to come and enjoy this very special time in the life of your WBFJ family!!!!!!

The Master can use what you have to offer,

Though you may consider it small:

His work here on earth is done through His children,

So give Him your best, give your all. –Hess

~Bonnie

Wednesday Word for April 13th

2011-04-14T07:50:00.001-07:00

These are the words that Tony and I vowed to each other on April 12, 1981:

“We choose each other on this most beautiful day of our lives: To love and confide in, to honor and take pride in, to believe and trust in.

We will care for each other and share our lives with each other through the best and the worst that is to be expected throughout the rest

of our eternal lives. Through God’s leadership and guidance, and the direction of the church, our lives together will become fulfilled.

For all these things, we promise each other.”

For 30 years, we have kept this promise to each other and have faced many paths that God has taken us on, not knowing what would happen.

But with His help and leadership, we have become stronger through the rough times, raised two children that we are so very proud of and continue

to follow His lead as He prepares us for yet another path into our retirement years. He has proven over and over again what a GREAT God he is

and we continue to praise Him for all He has done and all we know He will do.

Love….endureth all things – 1 Corinthians 13:7

~ Cindy

Wednesday Word for April 6th

2011-04-11T08:31:00.000-07:00

I believe that your life is complete when you are satisfied with who you are, and where you are in life. I haven’t always been satisfied. Often, I have doubted why certain things were in my life, and why things happened the way they did. I didn’t understand that everything has its season, and all things have their purpose. I didn’t understand that struggles and heartache would make me stronger, and a better person because of it. I also didn’t understand how to live in the moment. I was always so concerned with the future, worrying about the next step I had to take, or living in the past, with fear and regret, instead of learning how to enjoy where I was at the moment. And, let me tell you, living in fear is not really living.

Romans 8:28 says, “…in all things God works to the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

Matthew 6:31-34 says, “So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’, or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

    I am determined to make the most of every opportunity, to live life to its fullest, and to live, really live, in every moment of every day. I don’t know about you, but I don’t ever want to miss out on a moment or an opportunity just because I wasn’t paying attention, or I was too concerned with things that I couldn’t change anyways!
     Perhaps you have felt this way at times, or maybe you feel this way now. If you are facing change in your life, you don’t have to be afraid! God has promised that he will never give you more than you can bear, and that he will be with you every step of the way! May we never be afraid to embrace change, and may we be always satisfied, and ever hopeful of what the changes may produce in our lives!

~Abigail

Wednesday Word for March 30th

2011-04-04T07:39:00.000-07:00

What do we make out of the recent trend of the tragic death of teenagers from traffic-related accidents in our community? As the parent of three teens and one who works with more of the same on a weekly basis, it certainly gives cause for concern. While the circumstances surrounding each of these events differs, the commonality is found in a young life cut short – at least as we see it now.

It also makes me wonder if there is more to be found in these young lives than we are sometimes willing to look for. The “hope for tomorrow” or “the church of the future” may be looking beyond what God intends for the present. Perhaps these young lives have significant contributions for today. Scripture and history are filled with examples of young people making a difference for good in their society.

Is youth wasted on the young? Only if we let it…If we believe that God has ordained our days, He has done so for a purpose. Let’s respect that purpose, celebrate that life and give our youth the opportunity to honor and enjoy their Creator.

~WALLY

Wednesday Word for March 23rd

2011-03-25T08:54:00.001-07:00

Many of you, like me for the last week or so have been intrigued by the buzzer beaters and getting caught up in all the "madness" that March brings! And although it's fun and entertaining to watch, many other important issues fill our world. Days after the Japan earthquake, coverage was seemingly on every channel and the networks couldn't even keep up. And then, it seemed like after a week or so, the coverage lessened, but we know the devastation was still there and so real, but it wasn't in the forefront of our minds, let along our hearts. In today's media-filled world, I think we get so desensitized to tragedies like this. It seems so far away and we can't relate; or it won't happen here. According to the latest figures, giving is down (to Japan) nearly 40% given the same amount of time during the Haiti quake. Why? Americans and most of the world see Japan as a wealthy nation as apposed to Haiti as a very poor country. Bottom line here: pray for these people, their families and all the rescue and relief efforts. And if God lays it on your heart to contribute monetary, be there "one shinning moment" this March!! Hey, did someone say NFL lockout?

~Kurt

Wednesday Word for March 16th

2011-03-18T09:14:00.000-07:00

Traffic…weather…music.

Traffic...weather…music.

Things can get a little routine for all of us.

But then life happens. We get THE call.

Like many afternoons at WBFJ, I get word of a fender bender or a slow down. I report it and go on.

But there are days like yesterday when I get reports of an accident and I know it is bad. I know someone probably died in the crash.

It’s those calls that shake me up and remind me life is about real people… friends, family or someone else’s friends and family.

None of us are immune from getting the call.

March 17, 1991 I received mine. My brother-in-law called to tell me that my 81 year old mom and dad had died in a car crash on Highway 52 in Mt. Airy.

It was a Sunday night and they had been visiting family and shut-ins.

The good news is they lived a full live and are with the Lord forever.

Whether you are a part of the WBFJ Traffic Team, prayer partner, giver, listener, volunteer or all the above, I want to personally thank you for being a part of this family.

Let’s not let the ROUTINE or fear of THE call to discourage us and keep us from pressing on.

~John

Wednesday Word for March 9th

2011-03-09T06:07:00.000-08:00

One morning a few weeks ago I was on facebook and noticed that my son, Chad, had typed this:

‘For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whoever is a good person, shall not perish but have everlasting life?’ I don’t think so. Just doing good deeds will not get you there. ‘For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whoever believes in him, shall not perish but have everlasting life.’

When I asked him what the story behind this was, Chad's response was "I had just listened to Andy Stanley and in his message he brought out a lot of good points; such as this!"

We are saved my His grace, not works. Does that mean that once saved we can do anything we want or from now on life will be easy? No, I'm afraid not. When Jesus lives in our heart, we trust Him to guide us through whatever storm we face. As a Christian, one should not want to stray from God, but unfortunately, we are still sinners and will do so. But the difference is...we are forgiven by the sacrifice of God's son, Jesus Christ and His tremendous love for us. Keep doing the good deeds, but do so with the love of Jesus in your heart.

~Cindy

Wednesday Word for March 2nd

2011-03-02T05:41:00.000-08:00

Letter to the editor: Why go to church?

"I've been going to church for 30 years now and in that time I have heard something like 3,000 sermons. But for the life of me, I can't remember a single one of them. So, I think I'm wasting my time going to church every Sunday, and my pastor is wasting his time by preparing and giving sermons at all."

This ‘Letter to the Editor’ started a real controversy, sparking many in the community to ‘chime in’ on the conversation. After four weeks, this person’s response kinda sums it up…

"I've been married for 30 years now. In that time my wife has cooked some 32,000 meals. But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu for a single one of those meals. But I do know this... they all nourished me and gave me the strength I needed to do my work. If my wife had not provided these meals, I would be ‘physically dead’ today. Likewise, if I had not gone to church for spiritual nourishment, I would be spiritually dead today!"

Are you going through the motions?? Showing up for ‘church’ is maybe half the battle. But, are you showing up wanting to ‘experience’ God, via the pastor’s sermon, the hymns of praise or even through a friendly smile from the usher at the front door? Ask God through the Holy Sprit to speak to you today. He will.

“And we also thank God continually because, when you received the word of God, which you heard from us, you accepted it not as a human word, but as it actually is, the word of God, which is indeed at work in you who believe.”

1 Thessalonians 2:13 NIV

Thanks to Wendy M. from Lexington for posting this on Facebook.

~Verne

Wednesday Word for February 23rd

2011-03-02T05:39:00.000-08:00

This past weekend, I spent as I have many weekends over the last 10 years – sitting pool side, observing a swimming competition featuring one of my children. While my heart always jumps when a “Decker” is on the starting block, my favorite part of every swim meet is when the relays take to the water. Knowing the importance of every member of the relay team makes me watch in anticipation of knowing that victory comes with every stroke and not just on the last lap.

Yesterday and today, we are giving you the opportunity to join our relay team in making an eternal difference in the life of a child. By sponsoring a child thru Compassion International, you are not only investing in the life a needy child and their family, but you are also joining the “relay” that will bring the Gospel to this life, this household and this community.

Like the Good Samaritan, each of us has a part in the effort of providing compassion on those that are in need. It is a privilege to have those “beautiful feet” that bring the Good News. Remember, every step, every stroke leads to victory. Thanks for considering child sponsorship during the WBFJ Days Of Compassion – together, we press on for the prize!

-Wally

Wednesday Word for February 16th

2011-02-18T07:43:00.001-08:00

Well, It’s a couple days after Valentine’s Day.. Are you all flower-ed, card-ed, and candy-ed out? Perhaps you find it interesting like I do that individuals can turn on the charm and the ’giving’ feelings all because of the allure of the great ’day of love’. Did you see it? Were you possibly a participant when it’s out of your normal activity? Did you change?

I’m always amazed at how quickly stores like Walgreens and CVS can have isles and isles of decorations, gifts, balloons, etc.. You name it, and they have SO MUCH stuff pertaining to the current holiday. THEN, the next day, they’ve changed. They’ve completely changed their appearance and have moved on to the next event or ‘what’s hot’ happening.

So, here’s a thought: DO YOU CHANGE? Does your ‘ inside appearance’ change? Holidays come and go, seasons come and go - - it’s in with the new and out with the old. But WE are supposed to have something inside of us that is sustaining, that is lasting, that is the SAME; Day in and day out… WE of course = Grace receiving children of a loving God! It SHOULD be permanent right?

Spring is right around the corner. Enjoy it. I certainly will!

BUT DON’T CHANGE.

~Jeff

Wednesday Word for February 9th

2011-02-09T11:29:00.000-08:00

If you use a computer there are three things you can be sure of:

(1) Sooner or later your hard drive will crash.

(2) It will crash at the worst possible time.

(3) When you go to reload your new drive, you will not reload about half the stuff you had on the old drive…it’s stuff that’s out-dated, stuff that wasn’t useful in the first place or just stuff!

And if you are human, those same three principles apply:

(1) Sooner or later your life will experience a “crash” of some sort.

(2) The “crash” will come at the worst and least expected time.

(3) After you process it all and go to reload your life, you will probably find many things that no longer need to be there…bad attitudes, bad habits, bad relationships, just unprofitable “stuff”.

We never look forward to a hard drive crash or any of life’s crises but I can say, each one gives us a time to revaluate what’s really important…what we need to keep and those things that are excess baggage and weigh us down.

Now that I got you all serious, how about some big Valentine’s Hug to put it all in perspective… Happy Valentine’s Day!

~John

Wednesday Word for February 2nd

2011-02-03T06:38:00.001-08:00

When I was a kid, my favorite excuse for not doing a job around the house was always, “No one told me it needed to be done”. This drove my parents crazy. I can remember my dad on more than one occasion saying something like, “Look at this trash can…it is overflowing with garbage! I shouldn’t have to tell you to empty it, you should just be able to see that it needs to be done and then do it!” Now, with 3 children of my own, I can completely understand his frustration!

I am pretty sure that I frustrate my Heavenly father in the same way sometimes. How many times have I neglected work that needed to be done within the Kingdom, using the excuse, “Well, God has not called me to that work, so I will leave it for someone else.” Yes, we all have unique gifts and a unique calling. Yes, we should put those gifts to work wherever God leads us. However, I am convinced that there are some big messes in this world that God has already told us repeatedly to attend to. We do not need to wait for Him to specifically call us to act in these areas because he already has commanded us to do so in His Word.

There are dozens of scriptures where God says it is our responsibility to care for the widow, the orphan and the stranger. In Matthew 25, known as the “Parable of the Sheep and Goats”, Jesus says he will welcome the “sheep”—those people, who, throughout their lives, nourished the hungry, invited in strangers, clothed the naked, looked after the sick, and visited prisoners. As followers of Jesus, we are compelled to be the sheep.

If you are looking to roll up your sleeves and start cleaning up some of the world’s messes, there are so many places where you are needed. One wonderful way to make a difference is by sponsoring a child through Compassion International. You can read about my recent trip to Mexico City with Compassion here: http://compassioninmexico.blogspot.com/. Also, make sure to listen to WBFJ on February 22^nd and 23^rd as we are dedicating those days to getting as many needy kids sponsored as possible.

Tami

Wednesday Word for January 26th

2011-01-27T03:32:00.000-08:00

Did you get to hear the Mwangaza Children's choir when they were in studio last Tuesday? They sang beautifully and each shared their favorite scripture. Here we were standing and listening to these 10, 11 and 12 year olds not only share their favorite verse but encourage and admonish each of us. You can see them sharing on YouTube. It will bless your heart. One of the verses shared by Isaac was Colossians 3:23-24 Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. What a wonderful world we would live in if we all did everything with this being foremost in our mind. It reminds me of another verse: 1 Corinthians 10:31 So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. May everything we do be a reflection of our love for the Lord, whether you are mopping a floor, preparing a meal, volunteering, doing your 9-5, whatever it is do it to the glory of our God!!!!

I would like to ask you to do something, would you please join us in our annual Sweetheart Surprise promotion? There are senior citizens in our area that would love to receive a Valentine card from you! Please help to make their day special by making Valentine's and taking them to the area Lowes Food Stores. You can find a list of those stores at www.wbfj.fm. Please drop off your cards anytime from now until Feb 6th. We received a card back from one of the seniors last year and this is what she said, "Thanks a lot for my Valentine's filled with so much love for someone you only know as an invisible friend……you went to a lot of trouble to make these cards and I for one have gotten a lot of pleasure out of them not to mention lots of love. Please help us to make Valentine's Day extra special for an extra special group of seniors in our area.

On behalf of the area senior citizens I thank each of you in advance for making a difference in their lives and ours, too!!

Blessings,

Bonnie

Wednesday Word for January 19th

2011-01-27T03:30:00.000-08:00

Recently I heard of an extraordinary act of sportsmanship. It happened during a basketball tournament where the player voted the Most Valuable Player of the tournament later gave his trophy to the player he felt was more deserving. In fact, a few weeks later, he went to the college campus and presented the other player the award. In the fast-pace highly competitive world of sports it's nice to see sportsmanship exemplify in this manner. Rarely do you see an act like this.
Fortunately for you and I, God does not treat us as we deserve (Psalm 103:10); instead he chooses to bless us immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine most importantly with the promise of heaven (Ephesians 3:20).
Go and serve today with an attitude of gratitude because of what others and most importantly what God has done for you!
Blessings,
Kurt

Wednesday Word for January 12th

2011-01-27T03:29:00.000-08:00

Hello, WBFJ friends! I hope that your 2011 is off to a fabulous start and that you’ve been able to stay safe during this wintry weather! As I watched a city scraper truck cruise down my street yesterday, I couldn’t help but thank God for the man driving that truck. I assumed that the guy was probably feeling tired after working long hours. On most days, he probably doesn’t feel like he really makes much of a difference in the world. However, as a single mom who needed to get her child safely to daycare and herself to work, I wish I could have run out the door to tell the guy how much his work means to me. As I said a grateful prayer for the driver, I also asked God to help me become more active in expressing my genuine appreciation for the people around me who impact my life in meaningful ways. That being said, thank YOU for your support of WBFJ! I pray that this station blesses your life as much as it blesses mine!

Your friend,

Lana

Wednesday Word for January 5th

2011-01-07T03:35:00.000-08:00

I don’t know about you but as 2011 began, there was a bitter sweetness that surrounded it. 2010 was a year that brought many joys, but for some, just as many, if not more disappointments, heartache and pain. I am not sure what you experienced as a difficulty, disappointment, heartache or pain, was it the loss of someone who left us much too soon, lost employment that you felt pretty secure about, told that you or child had cancer or had to become the parent to an elderly parent? Having to go through these things in life alone would be devastating but we don't have to go through it alone, because we have a God who loves us and has a plan for our lives. (Jeremiah 29:11)

Our God loves us so much that He sent His one and only Son to die a cruel death that we might have forgiveness for our sins and eternal life. (Jeremiah 31:3, John 3:16, Eph 2:4-5)

Our God works together all things for our good. (Romans 8:28)

Our God supplies our needs. (Phil 4:19, Jehovah Jireh-our Provider)

Our God meets our needs by moving on the hearts of friends and families and sometimes people we don't know to be our Aaron, to hold our arms up when we are no longer able to do it our own. (Exodus 17:12, Gal 6:2)

Our God will speak specifically to us, so specifically that it is as if He speaks our name. (Zephaniah 3;17, 1 Timothy 3:16)

Our God will never leave or forsake us. (Deut. 3:16, Hebrews 13:5)

Our God's mercies are new every morning. (Lamentations 3:22-23)

I hope we will all begin 2011 by believing and standing on the truth of His word!!!

It is so easy when life is good to have faith. I am learning more and more our faith is exercised through the tough times, the times when life is not going our way, not going as we planned it, it's not always easiest, but absolutely necessary for us to make it through. Now Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see. (Heb. 11-1) Faith is not in the circumstance to be better but in the God who loves us with a perfect love that cast out all fear. (1 John 4:18)

So no matter what you or I have faced in the past or in the future - go forth in 2011 knowing that we can persevere, (Rom 5:3-5, Gal 6:9, James 1:12) we can be courageous, (Joshua 1:9) we can stand and not be dismayed, (Isaiah 41:10) because we are loved perfectly by our Father!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May 2011 be filled with the assurance that our utter dependence is on our God who loves each of us perfectly!!

~Bonnie

Wednesday Word for December 29th

2011-01-03T06:10:00.000-08:00

The Christmas season is over. Yes, it's true. The decorations are back in the attic. The carols are silent for another year and all the cheer and good will is so yesterday right? It certainly doesn't have to be -- BUT it's absolutely imperative that we take advantage of those "giving" opportunities that the Lord presents us with. Giving, doing for others, acts of selfless-ness -- all ways to show that God is moving through you to "esteem others rarer than ourselves."

A couple weeks back I was getting a haircut and just when my name was called to sit in my hair-cutting seat an elderly gentleman was getting ready to leave. He seemed to be having a difficult time putting his jacket on and unfortunately the others in the waiting area were to busy, to distracted to take notice. I had already been "strapped in" to my chair as he was paying and leaving, but it struck me like bad scissor cut across the back of my head, "that's a service moment"! That's a "step in when no-one else will" moment! They won't always be obvious with a starving child or helpless senior, but it's our responsibility, rather our privilege and our Jesus that we get to represent.

So, bring back the holly and the singing, good will towards men can last all year long!

-Jeff

Wednesday Word for December 15th

2011-01-03T06:06:00.001-08:00

I LOVE Christmas! Now that I’m older, I appreciate the real meaning of Christmas; the celebration of the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ. But, I must admit, growing up as an ‘only child’ (and the only grandchild on my mother’s side) the simple Traditions of Christmas were awesome. Christmas was all about family, friends, home cooking, the smell of fresh cut cedar trees, choir cantatas and children’s nativity plays. And, carefully wrapped presents under the tree.
The excitement of Christmas, especially Christmas Eve was almost TOO much for this kid from Davidson County. Strange? But growing up Methodist, it just seemed ‘normal’ to attend a Moravian Love Feast then attempt to fall asleep to the sounds of a Catholic Mass on TV on Christmas Eve.
Still, I long to feel the same ‘nervous excitement’ of my childhood Christmas. As a forty-something, I look ahead to the day when I will see my Jesus face-to-face. Talk about ‘nervous excitement’!

For now, I will truly enjoy Christmas 2010 with my wife and two not-so-young daughters…until that day when we will celebrate

‘Christ-mas’ for Eternity.

-Verne

Wednesday Word for December 8th

2010-12-08T07:59:00.000-08:00

Hello, WBFJ friends! Under some hilarious circumstances, my four-year-old daughter, Lexa, continually reminds me of God’s goodness and grace. I am sure that you can relate to the fact that my December calendar is booked solid. Every day seems like a mad rush, with little time to savor the special moments leading up to Christmas. One evening, after an especially hectic day, I was rushing Lexa to get out of the bathtub. She loves the jacuzzi tub in my bedroom and was enjoying the opportunity to splash around in the bubbly warm water. In the same melody she uses to sing one of our mealtime blessings, Lexa began to sing, “Thank you, Lord, for this wonderful tub!”. Hearing her precious voice sing that song, reminded me just how often I take for granted the simple but wonderful blessings that God provides me every day. Needless to say, once I got in the tub myself, I took a moment to say a prayer of thanks, thanking God not just for the warmth of a relaxing bath, but for the warmth of His amazing love. My prayer for all of us this holiday season is that we can take the time to savor the joy of Christ’s birth and praise our loving Father for His many blessings, big and small…

Lana

Wednesday Word for December 1st

2010-12-08T07:57:00.000-08:00

There was a story in the news this week that just broke my heart. A Thomasville man named Jason Powers was killed Sunday night trying to rescue his young son from their home which had caught fire. When the fire began late Sunday night, the family escaped safely. But, when they got outside they realized that their 2 year old was missing. So, Jason did what I guess most parents would do, he ran back into the burning building to look for his son. After he had gone back into the home, the boy’s mother found their son safely outside. Unfortunately, Jason had to be pulled out of the home by a neighbor and did not survive his injuries.

What motivates a man to run back into the blazing building that he had just escaped? Love. Pure, undefiled, unconditional love. It’s that same kind of love, on a much grander, supernatural scale, that propelled Jesus from the majesty and perfection of the Heavenly realms, down to our hurting world…to die in order to rescue us, his children, from the flames of hell. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16 NIV)

So, this year as you are gazing at the precious, innocent newborn in the center of the nativity scene, know that He represents the extreme, radical love that our Father God has for each one of us.

On another note - you can be a part of spreading God’s love through the WBFJ Christmas Blessing! Head on-line to http://www.wbfj.fm/cmasbusiness.html to find out how you can donate goods and services or make a financial contribution as WBFJ reaches out to 5 local families in need of a helping hand for the Holidays.

Merry Christmas!

Tami

Wednesday Word for November 24th

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September 22nd Edition

2010-11-03T08:40:00.000-07:00

My…how the years have gone by so fast…..It seems like yesterday that Tony and I were cuddling this beautiful little baby girl. I remember thinking how dependant she is on us to take care of all her needs and knowing that everything we do would be what she would come to know in her life. At first that thought was very scary, but then I thought – I want to be the best mom ever! In many ways along her life’s pathway, not everything was perfect, but with God in our lives, He got us through the years to this point and now comes the hardest part of life….letting her leave the nest. Our daughter, Christina, will be getting married this Saturday to a young man name Lance. Tony and I are so blessed to know that she has found a good man that we feel will take care of her the rest of the way. It is a very sad time but then again a very happy time of our lives. After all, God gives us children to raise with His helping hand so that they may one day have their own children to do the same. We are the fruit of the trees in God’s eyes and the fruit continues to grow and spread out. Please keep us in your prayers for the upcoming events this weekend and especially for Christina and Lance in their new life together as one.

There are different kinds of gifts. But they are all given by the same Spirit…..1 Corinthians 12:4

Cindy

September 15th Edition

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September 8th Edition

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September 1st Edition

2010-11-03T07:59:00.000-07:00

Hello WBFJ Family! What a blessing to share this weeks Wednesday Word with YOU! Over the last month, my family and I have celebrated many special dates regarding the 3 year anniversary of my daughter Lexa's adoption from Kazakhstan. As I reflect on the photos, videos and memories, it's hard to believe so much time has passed since those incredible days.

I clearly remember the awesome Joy of carrying her out of the orphanage doors, knowing that she would never be back again. I remember the feeling of relief as the plane took off from the Almaty airport. Most of all I recall landing at the Greensboro airport and the absolute euphoria as I carried her in my arms towards my awaiting family and friends. Lexa's time as an orphan had a happy ending. Unfortunately, right now, there are millions of children all over the world who are waiting to be held in the arms of a loving parent.

That's why I want to remind you that "Orphan Sunday" is Nov. 8th. If you would like to find out more or if your church would like to get involved, just go to www.christian-alliance-for-orphans.org or www.orphansunday.org.

As Christians, we are called to care for orphans in their distress. Please take the time to check out these websites. I know that God will use you to make a difference in the lives of these precious children.

Lana

August 12th Edition

2010-08-12T03:55:00.001-07:00

I just happen to run across this little saying: School days are the happiest days of our lives……

Just try telling that to a child that is in school. I imagine if they are like mine were, they will disagree with you very strongly. They would also say “How or What do you know?” Of course, we parents know nothing! Nothing warms my heart more than hearing the laughter of a child or even a song coming from a child’s mouth. As parents, we know they feel good and they are so happy! And that makes every parent happy!!! Children are gifts from heaven and every child is a blessing. I pray that any child going back to school this year, kindergarten thru college, will have a GREAT year of learning new things. Stay safe and enjoy these very special years!

For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations. Psalm 100:5

Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth. Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs. Psalm 100:1-2

Cindy Davis

August 4, 2010 Edition

2010-07-28T07:49:00.000-07:00

Thanks to my 7th Grade Spanish teacher and 3 trips to Guatemala, I’ve picked up a little Spanish. On my most recent trip, I found I had picked up just enough Spanish to almost engage in a conversation with someone, but then had nowhere to go because of the language barrier. It was SO FRUSTRATING!!! I’m a talker, I majored in Communication and talking is what I do for a living. So, for me, only being able to have shallow chats with people and not having the words to go deeper was really stifling. Fortunately, the Guatemalans I found myself in this position with were very gracious. They seemed to appreciate that I was at least trying to speak their language, even though my heart to communicate far exceeded my ability.

I sometimes feel the same way when I get into conversations with people about my faith. I know enough about what I believe and the Bible to start a conversation with people, but once we go deeper, I sometimes struggle to find the words to articulate why I believe what I believe. Has this ever happened to you? There are a plethora of books and websites that can help you find the words you need to have conversations about your faith. Josh McDowell’s website, Josh.org is a good place to start. New Christians and long-time Christ followers alike could probably all benefit from a lesson in apologetics.

On the other hand, I have met many Christians who are extremely well educated in theology, doctrine and the Bible, but seem to lack the compassion and love in necessary to communicate that knowledge in a way that others are receptive to. In 1Corinthians 13 Paul emphasizes the importance of love in our communication with others, saying, “If I speak in the tonguesa]" of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.”

Paul reiterates the point that the language of our faith is a language of love. We can have the words and the ability, but it is love that allows the message to penetrate other’s hearts.

Tami Rumfelt

July 21st Edition

2010-07-21T07:56:00.000-07:00

What is it about human nature that desires our victories to be public? We want everyone to know that we are winners, accomplished the task, achieved the prize…and they – did not!

Ticker-tape parades, championship t-shirts and Rose Garden receptions have become the standard of the winners’ spoils. Victory itself seems incomplete without the praise of others.

Recently, my family had opportunity to celebrate a victory that was nearly a decade in the making. However, due to circumstances beyond our control and a powerful mid-summer thunderstorm, the celebration of such was basically non-existent. Those who had helped make the dream a reality had been dispersed by the events of the day.

How many victories in life go by without notice? Does the lack of attention cheapen the achievement?

I guess we have to ask ourselves if the joy of the victory is in the celebration OR in the accomplishment, the finished race, the job well-done? Maybe…our focus in winning should mirror that of the One who endured by finding joy in the “prize that was set before Him.” That trumps the party every time!

Wally Decker

June 10th Edition

2010-06-13T20:46:00.000-07:00

There’s a game I love to play called “Make the Connection.” It’s played by finding out what 3 things all have in common. For example, Baseball, Greeting, Debit……and the answer is they are all “Cards.” Now that you know how to play, make the connection with New Years, the day you start your Vacation, and the last day of school. Have you figured it out yet? They are all counted down to! We’ve all at one time or another stayed up to watch the big Ball drop from Times Square on TV, circled a date on the calendar with the word beach or vacation in it, and I guarantee your children (and their teachers) have been counting down to this week! With any countdown, comes anticipation. In my household, the countdown to building our new home has been going on for 12 years! Now that’s it’s underway and we can see the progress each day, our excitement is building to a point that I’m not sure if my wife and children are going to make it until we get to move in! So now I must ask….”Are You Pondering What I’m Pondering? Matthew 25:13 says, “Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man comes.” Now that’s an event we can all get excited about!

Darren Stevens

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Wednesday Word - March 17th Edition

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Tomorrow is my husband, Tony’s, birthday and I just want to wish him a very happy BIRTHDAY! God chose this day for you to be born and has a plan and a purpose for your life. He has Blessed you in many ways and continues to Bless me with being your wife for almost 29 years. Growing old with you has been one of my favorite things to do in my life as I look forward to continuing our road together.

"I always thank God for you because of his grace given you in Christ Jesus."

1 Corinthians 1:4

Wednesday Word - March 10th Edition

2010-03-09T19:33:00.001-08:00

It’s Wednesday and Friday is coming. Today I am excited about Friday being on the way because of the pre-screening of Letters to God at Winston- Salem First being sponsored by Lewisville Drug and WBFJ with all proceeds going to Cancer Services Inc.

The word cancer is spoken and people cringe. The word cancer is spoken and people shrink in fear. I know this because I have had so many in my life experience cancer. I know that many of you have too. I also know this because I have walked the walk of someone dealing with being told “you have breast cancer.” In April, I will become a 6 year cancer survivor.

I praise God for getting me through those first few months and all that have followed. I thank Him for His word that was and is the strength for my every moment. I praise Him for working through doctors and nurses. I thank Him for services like Cancer Services of Forsyth County who sent out a volunteer that was a cancer survivor to encourage me.

Cancer Services Inc. is an invaluable resource for anyone going through cancer. You never know that until you have had that need met. I would encourage anyone that is dealing with or will have to deal with those dreaded words “you have cancer” to get support. Cancer Services Inc. is a great place to start but don’t stop there. Tap in to support from you church family, from your friends, co workers and family. Please allow these people to be used as a blessing in your life. If you are that friend, co worker or family member just be there with open arms and a listening heart and availability to be used of God.

I hope to see you at the pre-screening of Letters to God on Friday. What a wonderful way to start our weekend. For more information, please go to our websitewww.wbfj.fm , www.cancerservicesonline.org

Psalm 18:2 The LORD is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer,
my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge,
my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold. (ESV)

Wednesday Word - March 3rd 2010

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When I was growing up in Pilot Mountain I spent many waking moments wondering about "my tomorrows". How tall would I be? Would my ears and nose ever stop growing? Where would I go to college? What kind of job would I end up doing? And the biggy-whom would I marry? (In my 30’s, would I ever get married?)

Now that I am older, I find myself spending an inordinate amount of time thinking about "my yesterdays". I spend spare time "Facebooking" and anything else I can do to revisit the past. For some reason all the relationships and memories that have survived the years mean so much more to me now.

And I have discovered it’s not just me. Other family and friends are also now sharing more and more pictures and memories of our earlier growing up days.

If you’re over 30 you may find yourself doing it, too... if not now, trust me, you will!

All this time spent reminds me of just how good God really is. The Lord has been so faithful. It all really has turned out pretty well! My nose and ears finally did quit growing. I did graduate from UNC (barely). I married a sweet lady and I did end up here in the WBFJ family. And…OH, did I tell you I also have 3 beautiful and talented grandchildren (pictures optional…just pay separate shipping and handling...LOL).

“Todays” and “tomorrows” rapidly become “yesterdays”… that’s why it’s so important to make the most of every moment and serve the One who is the same “yesterday, today and forever”!

Thanks for being my friend.

Papa John

Wednesday Word - January 27th Edition

2010-01-28T19:33:00.000-08:00

Is anyone out there ready for the winter to be over? Or are you like me and you enjoy the winter season? The threat of winter snow is wonderful news to my ears. The sight of winter snow is even a sweeter sight to my eyes. Living in the triad we all know that the threat of snow just may be that a threat that will never amount to much more. When it does snow is it not a sweet sight? Everything is covered in white and seems to get new life.

I am reminded when I see snow falling aznd covering everything in sight that is what happened when I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior. His precious blood flowed over me and cleansed and cleanses me just like the beautiful white snow. His gift of salvation is a gift to all who ask! We don’t have to worry about the possibility of it not being for us, it is a gift to all. He desires that everyone will acknowledge their need of Him. His mercies are new every morning!!! How precious is our God.

I thank Him today that He chose me to be His and one day many years ago I chose to make Him mine. I pray that you, too have made that choice for your life but if not it is not too late to ask Him in to your heart and life. No matter the circumstance, no matter the sin, just ask for His forgiveness and He will answer you with His redemptive love.

“The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22-23 (ESV)

And speaking of love, please join many in the area of extending your love in the way of Valentine’s cards to the senior citizens in our area. There are many a folk that would benefit by receiving Valentine’s card from you!!

Would you please get involved and be a blessing to those seniors? You can take your Valentine’s card to any area Lowe’s between now and February the 7th. Thank you in advance for what you will do to brighten someone’s day!!! For more details, please go to our website, www.wbfj.fm.

Thank you for being a part of our WBFJ family!!! You bless our lives with your prayers, your encouragement and your support. May our God bless you abundantly today and everyday!!!!

Wednesday Word -January 13th Edition

2010-01-15T18:21:00.000-08:00

Hello, WBFJ friends! I hope that you are enjoying a cozy January!

As for me, I am one of those folks who really dislikes winter. As soon as the New Year is celebrated, I would like to bypass the rest of January, as well as the entire month of February, and jump straight into mid-March. Then, to make up for the months I’ve missed, I’d like a double-dose of May and September.

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could “special order” the seasons of our lives much in that same manner? We all experience times in our lives when our circumstances leave us feeling bitterly cold and winds of discouragement put a chill in our heart. There’s no skipping those seasons. They happen to everyone. Thankfully, we have a loving Father, who wants to wrap His love around us like a warm blanket for our soul. We can drink in His word like a rich cup of hot chocolate and have our hearts warmed from the inside out. I pray that whatever season of life you are experiencing, you are putting your trust in our faithful God and can take comfort in the fact that your springtime will arrive in His time!

Your friend,

Lana

Wednesday Word -January 6th

2010-01-07T04:54:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year to all you Wednesday Worders…..

My new year started off with the hardest CD Tower shuffle I’ve ever had. I had Kurt Myers spin my CD tower, grab a random CD and then a random song which ended up being “Gangsta” by the Christian Hip Hop artist “Liquid” off of the 2004 CD titled “Hip Hope Hits.” After listening to the song about a drug dealer’s life on the streets, I did a search on the Latin artist “Liquid” and found out his goal is “to be as honest as possible, in every sense. I want to be honest about the drug dealers and crime, that thugs pull out guns three yards away from you, the fights—it’s all horrible stuff. But I also remember growing up that if we ever needed anything, even a loaf of bread, our neighbors took care of us."

Did you catch that last line…..if we ever needed anything; our neighbors took care of us. That line hit me pretty hard. I started thinking back to when I knew everyone in my neighborhood…….unfortunately, I can’t say that now. How about you? I hear people talk about how “times have changed” but I don’t think they have too much, but they’ve sped up about 200%. We never have enough time. My goal this year is to make time for what’s important….God, Family and Friends. I pray that you and your family will take the time to make this a wonderful year and that God Blesses each of you.

Darren

Wednesday Word -New Years Edition

2010-01-01T13:42:00.000-08:00

Is our appearance on this earth an advent? Better yet, does it become one when the indwelling Christ takes up residence in our lives?

As the end of 2009 approaches, I reflect on what has been a great year…but, then it seems like I’ve been to more funerals and funeral homes in the past year than at any point in my life. This sobering fact may be an indicator of advanced age, a broadening of my social circle or simply a greater awareness of the grief that encounters each of our lives.

Despite this concurrence, I find hope in knowing that the Believer has more life in death than in life itself. We don’t want to think that is true from the human perspective…but then again, ours is just that – the human perspective.

Tomorrow, my youngest becomes a teenager. This was a child who was ushered into the world nearly two months ahead of schedule. He spent his first week in the world on a respirator and waited that long for his mommy to hold him. Now, he epitomizes that joy of life and we praise God daily for this gift.

However, during the weeks he spent in the hospital allowing his body to mature to that of a new born – a part of him passed away…actually it did for all of our children, and each of us as well. As a sign, there comes that time for each newborn where “the raisin” is thrown away. At least that’s what we called it at our house. “The raisin” is that final remnant that serves as a reminder of our source of life for the previous nine months.

It’s like the flowers we place at a gravesite – only a symbolism of what was once living. We believe that life begins at conception, so ideally, Christ’s advent was months before Bethlehem. Being made in His image, gives us hope that our lives are not defined by calendars or years, by the measure of eternity for which we were created.

Happy New Year!

Wednesday Word -December 16th

2009-12-19T18:12:00.000-08:00

Greetings, WBFJ friends! It’s a blessing to share this Wednesday Word with you! My daughter, Lexa, is only three years old, yet she teaches me “life lessons” almost every day.

Our Christmas preparation this year has been especially fun and meaningful, because Lexa is finally old enough to understand and anticipate all that Christmas is about. She was especially excited to talk to Santa this year. Unfortunately, we arrived at the mall while Santa was at lunch, so we shopped for a little while. By the time he returned, there was a long line of children waiting and we were near the back of the line. Lexa was well-behaved and patient as she waited her turn. Her anticipation of sitting on Santa’s lap overshadowed the inconvenience of standing in line. When her moment arrived, she sat joyfully on Santa’s lap and posed beautifully as the camera snapped their picture.

Lexa didn’t allow her joy to be stolen just because she had to stand in line. My prayer for all of us is that we spend more time joyfully anticipating God’s blessings for our lives, than letting ourselves get distracted by life’s inconveniences. Like a child anticipates the joys of Christmas, may our child-like faith anticipate the blessings of God.

Merry Christmas from my family to yours!

Let your little light shine

2009-12-09T05:22:00.000-08:00

Last week, I attended a ‘Candle Tea’ inside the single brother’s house at historic Old Salem. After a short introduction, our homeschool group was ushered into a room that hinted of ‘honey’. One of the ‘instructors’ explained about making those famous bee’s wax candles that are used by Moravian churches during seasonal Love Feasts. . From stringing the cotton wick to plugging the end of the metal candle mold, each and every step had a proper order. Once the hot wax was poured into the mold, it had to ‘set up’ or harden…but not too much. If left too long, it would be very difficult or even impossible to work the newly formed bee’s wax candles from their temporary home.

So it is with followers of Christ. At the point of conversion, we tend to be ‘on fire’ for Christ. Willing and able…even ‘pliable’ toward the Master candle maker. Yet, over time, Christians can become ineffective, even stuck in their candle mold. Unable to shine. Unable to be used for His Glory.

As we approach the celebration of Christmas, let us not become too busy and stressed that we snuff out our eternal light. May we rejoice at the real reason for the season…the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ.

In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.

Matthew 5:16

Useful Trivia: The world's richest 360 people have the same amount of money as the poorest 2.4 billion people. (Dr Hunter ‘Patch’ Adams)

Thanksgiving Shoes

2009-12-02T04:12:00.000-08:00

This Thanksgiving, somewhere in the midst of cooking and shopping and visiting with family, I forgot to be thankful. It really bugged me at the end of the day as I drifted off into my Turkey-induced coma, when I realized that I hadn’t taken any time at all to sincerely thank God for all of the blessings He had sent my way. To be honest, I really wasn’t feeling particularly thankful. I knew in my head that I had plenty to say thank you for, but the deep sense of appreciation that should have been in my heart wasn’t there.

The next day, as I was organizing the house I asked the kids to round up every pair of shoes they could find so that I could sort through them and get rid of the ones that were too small or too worn-out to wear. After nearly half an hour of looking in closets, toy bins, under beds and among several laundry piles, my kids announced that they had collected all of the shoes, matched up the pairs they could find, and put them on the floor in the living room.

When I walked into the room to inspect their work, I could not believe my eyes. There on the floor was row after row of shoes, somewhere around 35 pairs. Immediately, my mind flashed to the kids I had met in Guatemala whose shoes were clearly way too small and full of holes. Then I remembered hearing about the kids in Africa who walk around on painfully injured or infected feet because they have no shoes at all. At that moment, my heart remembered just how much I really do have to be thankful for. It was like God had put together an object lesson right there for me on my living room floor.

Psalm 92:1-2 reminds us of the importance of thanksgiving, “It is good to praise the LORD and make music to your name, O Most High, to proclaim your love in the morning and your faithfulness at night.”

The truth is, no matter how bad we may think we have it, we all have plenty to be thankful for. Sometimes, we just need God to point out for us the many ways he has blessed our lives so that our hearts can once again be filled with praise and thanksgiving.

Extreme Home Makeover: Spiritual Edition

2009-11-27T11:16:00.000-08:00

If you were like me, last week you watched in amazement the events unfold one-by-one from the Extreme Home Makeover. What a blessing! However, it did make me wonder, why isn't the church doing more of this? Here's a thought on how the church could step up and take a lead role in EHM.

Community: The church body coming together (just doing life with people), serving one God with one heart; one voice. Learning to serve God first, by serving one another and the act of becoming nameless, faceless and placeless while giving Him the glory. Imagine what the church could accomplish (in His name), if no one cared who got the credit.

Mission: Making Christ known to the world and focusing on taking the message of Christ to the city; (whatever that may look like), today more than ever, people need to know there is hope. As Christ-followers we should be living a life of Godly character and looking for the opportunity to share the Good News!

Prayer: Spending time talking to God that will result in a deeper relationship with Him. Thus, allowing God to show us opportunities to serve as a part of community and mission. In my opinion, this is the most important of these three because it brings in the spiritual dynamic (to EHM) and allows God to begin the process of working through us.

Imagine how much more of a blessing the church could be if we all laid down our agendas and egos and lived out God's love in action by simply serving. That could lead to eternal dividends. And that, my friend is an extreme "soul" makeover!!

Wednesday Word - October 28th "Falling Back"

2009-10-30T06:09:00.000-07:00

I have waited close to eight months for this special event. Early Sunday morning, I get my ‘hour’ back. You know, the ‘hour’ that is stolen (like a solid night’s sleep) every spring. Honestly, losing an ‘hour’ does indeed affect me. Is it just mental? Is it purely psychological? Please don’t judge me unfairly.

According to SleepBetter.org…

-Losing just one hour of sleep can disrupt the body's circadian rhythm, potentially

disrupting sleep patterns and affecting daily activities, due to sleep deprivation.

-This situation results in slower thinking and reaction time. Moodiness and exhaustion are also common, which can lead to fatigue and irritability.

http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/99444.php

Well, that explains a lot about my body (and mind) craving the loss of an hour’s sleep . Right dear?

Here are some ‘facts’ to impress your children about Daylight Saving Time:

-Contrary to popular belief, no federal rule mandates that U.S. states or territories observe daylight saving time.

-Most U.S. residents set their clocks one hour forward in spring and one hour back in fall. But people in Hawaii and most of Arizona—along with the U.S. territories of Puerto Rico, American Samoa, and the Virgin Islands—will do nothing.

According to one study, Daylight saving time, however, can bring many benefits including a decrease in the number of traffic accidents, traffic fatalities, and incidences of crime. Congress noted other advantages while updating legislation in 1986, including "more daylight outdoor playtime for the children, greater utilization of parks and recreation areas, expanded economic opportunity through extension of daylight hours to peak shopping hours.

Daylight Saving Time references:

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2009/10/091026-daylight-savings-time-2009-fall-back.html

So, seize the ‘hour’. No matter if you use that extra daylight later in the day to play with the kids, shop or just sleep. Just, seize the ‘hour’.

Daylight Saving Time happens this weekend.

Don’t forget to set your clocks back one hour

before you go to bed on Saturday night.

-VERNE HILL

October 21st Edition - Cindy Davis

2009-10-21T08:51:00.001-07:00

Have you ever caught yourself getting so involved in something that it overwhelmed you in such a way it was no longer fun, but stressful? This is what I mean; there are so many things that are enjoyable in life, but then that joy can very quickly turn into frustration if you take in too much at once. Things like church involvement, mission work, job activities and spending time with family, especially with children (young or old) should take stress out of life, not add to it!

That kind of time is getting less and less as my daughter, Christina, has announced her engagement to be married in September, 2010. Yep, just what I needed, one more thing to worry about! But, I know God will lead me and get me through everything that is thrown my way. I know my faith is so often challenged and that is a good thing. It keeps me humble and shows me He is in control and is always there for me. So, the key to all of this madness is to simply let God be in control and enjoy His peace at doing so.

Ecclesiastes 2:24-25
So I decided there is nothing better than to enjoy food and drink and to find satisfaction in work. Then I realized that these pleasures are from the hand of God. For who can eat or enjoy anything apart from him? God gives wisdom, knowledge, and joy to those who please him...

Wednesday Word - October 7th

2009-10-19T11:54:00.000-07:00

It’s another great day at the Dixie Classic Fair. Of course, today is special because NEEDTOBREATHE is in concert in the Grandstand at 7:30 and we welcome the SHELLY MOORE BAND for a pre-show beginning @ 7:00. The Concert is free once you are in the fair and today only you can get in for 5 cans of Lowes Foods brand foods.

BUT…if you’ll allow me a personal spin on the day – it is most special and somewhat nostalgic. There will be no accolades from Willard Scott or letter from the President, but in an assisted living facility in middle Tennessee, my Aunt Mary celebrates her 100th birthday!

If anyone ever walked the earth that deserves a “Well Done, Good & Faithful Servant”, in my opinion, it is my Aunt Mary. She never married or had a family. Instead, she gave her entire life to reaching children with the Gospel in Bible Clubs and Summer Camps. Her physical heritage bears no heirs, but her spiritual lineage runs deep.

It’s seems only fitting that God numbers her days beyond a century. Her story is nothing more than a life of faithfulness – in serving her Savior and dwelling in His presence.

For most of us, the fair evokes a broad spectrum of memories – from our own childhood to the days we boarded the carousel with our own toddlers…today, my memories are like a homespun quilt from Yesterday Village – a true reminder of the fabric from which are lives are sown. Happy 100th Birthday Aunt Mary – it’s a privilege to be cut from the same cloth…and in your honor, I enjoyed chocolate chip cookies for breakfast, because that’s what you would have served…

Wednesday Word - September 16th

2009-09-18T08:45:00.000-07:00

It’s another Wonderfully Blessed Wednesday!!!! I am trusting that you are walking in the blessings of our Lord!!!!!

I have the wonderful privilege of overseeing the volunteers here at WBFJ. I call it a privilege because I truly believe that it is. Our volunteers are like family to me. I am so blessed!!!!! It is a delight to see how the body of Christ operates through each of our volunteers. It is not about Baptist, Presbyterian, Moravian, Methodist or Pentecostal or any denomination, its about Jesus and being His hands and feet.

Our volunteers walk that out in everything they do with us. They will be going soon to be Jesus hands and feet at the Dixie Classic Fair, one of the times throughout the year that we need volunteers. We would love to add to our WBFJ Volunteer Family!!!

Have you every wanted to help!!! Now is the time!!!!! Please visit our website at www.wbfj.fm or CLICK HERE to sign up as a WBFJ Volunteer!

So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.

1 Corinthians 10:31 (NIV)

BONNIE

WW July 22nd Edition - Verne Hill

2009-07-27T11:21:00.000-07:00

Thirteen (13 ) (From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)

-The age at which children become teenagers…

-A number associated with horror and superstition…

Teen or Teenager

-A person between 13 and 19 years of age…

What ’13’ means to me? I’m getting older. 13 years ago, I became a daddy for the first time. My oldest daughter (Bailey) is officially a teenager today. Specifically, she will turn ‘13’ at 7:47pm.

I kinda remember the teen years. Insert over 40 age joke here…

The excitement of having my life ahead of me. The excitement of getting my driver’s licenses, having more independence and thinking that I ‘knew most everything’ by the time I was 18. Well, little did I know (no pun intended) how ‘smart’ my parents would become when I turned 23. Actually, I became more open to listen and ask questions, instead of knowing everything.

The one thing that I know today is that Paula and I are now the parents of a teenager. I am happy and sad at the same time. Happy to see my little Bailey growing into a beautiful young woman. But, sad to know that I will never get the past 13 years back.

What will the next 13 years have in store? Driving. College. Job. Dating? Marriage? Whew!!! Maybe, I’ll take this growing up thing one year at a time.

In the mean time…where’s my half gallon of Breyer’s Mint Chocolate Chip and a big spoon.

-Verne Hill

WW: July 15th Edition - Papa John

2009-07-21T09:29:00.000-07:00

"Sometimes what we think we really want we don't"

I loved this comment on FACEBOOK . I didn’t take time to ask our former Intern what she meant by it but it really got me thinking.

I remembered back as a little boy just dying to buy a little portable tape recorder. It wasn’t a month before I was tired of it and wanting a better one. And all those cereal box offers- the stuff was never as good as I thought it was going to be.

A new bike- I just couldn’t wait to get it- but it wasn’t long before the new wore off and I went back to riding my old beat-up hand-me-down bike. The same thing happened with my first car- my glow faded the first few months.

And all those “misses Right” I met before the Lord brought Judy and I together- sure glad the Lord didn’t answer all those prayers. LOL!

Bottom Line principle I have learned: Pray hard about important decisions and try to check my motive, “Why do I want this. Is it going to hinder my walk?”, and similar questions.

I’ve found if the desire was from self or the enemy, I am always disappointed. But if the Lord makes it happens…it’s usually better than I could have ever imagined.

Remember the old saying: “God always give His best to those who leave the choice with Him”.

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2009-07-21T08:28:00.000-07:00

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